Holly ([info]ercasse_ainince) wrote,
@ 2007-07-31 11:19:00
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Current mood:resolved

I need someone mean.
I'm tired of my job and tired of my procrastinating and even more tired of hearing myself complain about my job and my procrastinating. I want to go to grad school in fall '08, so I must turn in applications by December (preferably November) '07.

I promised myself I'd do grad-school research for an hour yesterday, and I did (more like an hour and a half). I've vowed to do so again today. But I'm already cowed by the process and how little I know about how to go about it. My fear is that I'll get discouraged and not keep up the effort. So I'm posting here seeking a taskmaster.

What I need in a taskmaster is someone mean, someone who won't let me get away with excuses. I don't mean I need someone to call me names or berate me. (I've done that to myself with no results.) I mean I need someone who will keep on me about it, check in with me, not back off when I slacken my efforts. Of course I'd appreciate any knowledge about or experience in selecting and applying to grad schools, but what I really need is someone who would require me to find that information and act on it.

I'd be thrilled with someone who would help/make me break down the process into smaller tasks and assign me deadlines for each task. My best friend Marjorie once said what she wanted for Christmas was the name of the grad school I would attend, but that assignment was too nebulous and complex. I'd start research, get frustrated, and stop. That Christmas passed, and I had nothing for her.

Any volunteers or recommendations for someone to be my taskmaster?



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[info]shadmere
2007-07-31 06:10 pm UTC (link)
Me and Brooke were trying to help, but we got a bit lost on exactly what you wanted to go to graduate school for. I mean, what do you want a Masters in? If there's more than one thing that you think you would want to do, and are not sure of, then list them. (If it's more than five things you're thinking about, then try to narrow it down some.)

Hrm . . . this part shouldn't be too hard. You might already have an answer. If you don't, and it is hard, then it shouldn't be too difficult to make a list of five or less, at least. So you have until Friday.

Your definition of "mean" is amusing, by the way. Do you just mean, "Someone who won't back down and say 'Oh it's ok, don't worry about it, let's eat some cake'"?

The punctuation at the end of that last sentence fried my brain, so I'm going all Britishy with it.

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[info]brukwurm
2007-07-31 09:00 pm UTC (link)
I love you baby.

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[info]brukwurm
2007-07-31 09:02 pm UTC (link)
And I agree with Jacob. I would be happy to break it down on a calendar oriented task list if you'd like. And I got an answer from my cousin, but I was a lil too scared to read it well.

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[info]firebreatherjen
2007-08-02 03:49 am UTC (link)
I'll trade you. I'll bug you about grad school; you bug me about job applications. We can both procrastinate together!

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(Anonymous)
2007-08-08 02:26 am UTC (link)
I'm glad you didn't take me up on being a taskmaster when I talked to you this weekend - I didn't know you wanted someone mean! I'm not sure I could handle being mean to you...but I can ask you about your progress from time to time. :) - Tenbucks

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