Holly ([info]ercasse_ainince) wrote,
@ 2005-04-29 23:31:00
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Current mood:geeky
Current music:"Fever," Michael Buble
Entry tags:swing dance, work

a buch of short clips
Several relatively interesting things have happened to me lately. In no particular order:

I was stalked by an 18-wheeler driver on the highway. At first I thought it was in my head. I already am nervous around big trucks because when I was learning to drive, my grandfather took me on the freeway (too soon) where I knocked off his side-view mirror against an 18-wheeler. Normally, I pass them or let them pass me. I never travel alongside one. This one I couldn't seem to move around. I thought perhaps he, like me, was going the speed limit. I would try to pass him, and he would seem to speed up. I moved over one lane to the left; so did he. I slowed down; so did he. I was very nervous and frustrated, but I still wasn't sure I wasn't making it up. So I began to speed up, waiting till he was beginning to speed up, too, and then went back down to the speed limit as his momentum carried him forward. Then, to my horror, he waved to me as we passed.

This truck-stalking incident happened on my way back from a deposition in Asheboro, over an hour and a half from Raleigh. The deposition was to start at 1:30, and I was supposed to leave at around 11:20 to get there in plenty of time. For reasons unbeknownst to man, I wrote "12:20" on my directions instead. At ten to noon, Lynda walked upstairs and asked, "Aren't you going to Asheboro today?" I responded that I was leaving around 12:30. "It takes only an hour to get there?" she asked, at which point it all clicked, and I ran out the door. I, compulsive speed-limit follower that I am, went five over the whole way (for which I've been applauded by roommie [info]supermer and friend Melanie). I arrived at 1:20, hurried into the lobby, announced myself, and said that I was running late. The receptionist replied that no, I wasn't, because the witness, a surgeon, had canceled due to an emergency surgery.

I've not enjoyed working long hours and over the weekends, but I'm looking forward to my next paycheck. I promised myself I wouldn't bring home work over the weekend, but I did. It's not that much, though. And this is my last rush order (for now).

I've noticed that my new dancing addiction has influenced my taste in music. I've been a Harry Connick, Jr., fan for a while, but taking up swing dancing has interested me more in Frank Sinatra, big band, and jazz. I'm now officially a Michael Buble fan (even though I spent several weeks making fun of his name). That boy can sing! And "Fever" is now one of my favorite songs. It is usually played at least once at swing dances at the Durham armory, and I try always to have a partner and dance to it. I like Romeo's line: "Fever, yes, I burn, forsooth!"

Just to let all the guys out there know, dancing is mad attractive. A newly-converted-to-dance friend of mine [info]firebreatherjen has commented that otherwise plain-looking men become attractive when we discover that they are good dancers.



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[info]bemusedsurvivor
2005-04-30 04:31 pm UTC (link)
Dancing is always good - I've taken up ice-dance, which is challenging. Any guy who can dance at least doubles his attractiveness!!!

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[info]ercasse_ainince
2005-05-01 11:44 am UTC (link)
Ice dance? Like with skates? Wow, you're so much cooler than I.

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[info]bemusedsurvivor
2005-05-01 12:41 pm UTC (link)
yep, that's the one, all you need is an ice-rink, your own ice-skates (not hockey skates, dance skates, or figure skates) and a good ice-dance teacher. Its mainly done on individual lessons, I just have to find a guy about my height and the same standard as me and I'll be sorted. My teacher fits the first requirement, but........well.........he's a pro, so he doesn't need another ice-dance partner!

The thing with ice dance is that you really have to know and trust your partner, because, as the girl, you put your life in their hands when you're going backwards (kinda like the ballroom pose), during the lifts, and when you go wrong and trip yourself up you need to know that you can suddenly put all your weight on just one of his arms so that you avoid some serious bruises from crashing onto the ice!!

The great thing is the seriously toned legs I'm getting from all the ice dance!! Just in time for the summer!! (Just need to do a little work on my upper arms to tone them up a bit - who needs a gym?!!)

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[info]guillamo
2005-05-01 01:09 am UTC (link)
ever see Duel? :)

I have no trouble with semi's, except when there's two of them and they decide to drive parallel the whole way. I've had that happen a couple times. Or, once there were like three of them, and over the course of about 10 miles they'd sorta do a square dance thing on the road: the back one would go to the left lane and pass the first one; the third one would go in the left lane and pass the second one; etc. I'm not sure if my semi colon use was correct there. If it's wrong, take that as my metaphorical rebellion against all things semi.

Anyway, actually buses (ie- Greyhounds, not school buses) can be just as bad as the one in your story. But then again, if wino's done get jobs driving buses and semi's where will they be? Out on the streets. And we don't want that. ;)

btw, I can't dance. Last time I danced, I was like, 12 or 13. We had to square dance(there it is again-- "Square Dancing- the dance that haunts Guillamo!" in gymn. All I remember is that it was like an equation set to dance. Literally, you simply follow instructions. You could be blind and still be an excellent square dancer. But what I remember even more than that, is that girls have really sweaty hands. huh.

Yeah, I think it was the sweaty hands thing that drew me away from dancing for the rest of my life. Sweat is icky.

But there's also the fact that I overthink everything. The only time I can really get on the dance floor is when I'm drunk, and when I'm pretty sure everyone else is at least as drunk if not more drunk than me. So, I lied before . I "danced" the other summer at a wedding reception. Just to some oldies, and the last one I danced to was YMCA.

Man, what a great, great song. I rock the dance floors on that one.

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[info]ercasse_ainince
2005-05-01 03:48 am UTC (link)
Please don't tell me any more big-truck horror stories. I'm scared enough of them as it is.

It sounds like the only thing you need to enjoy dancing is a little more confidence. Usually the other people on the dance floor aren't looking at the other dancers. Only the people on the sidelines are doing that. And they're on the sidelines b/c they can't dance.

In my experience, the males are the sweaty ones. At my regular dance place, several of the guys bring a change or shirt or two. We ladies are very appreciative.

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[info]firebreatherjen
2005-05-01 04:31 am UTC (link)
Or people are one the sidelines because they like to be ASKED to dance, but not to ASK OTHERS to dance.

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[info]ercasse_ainince
2005-05-01 11:45 am UTC (link)
Was that comment in reference to me? ::innocent look::

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