Holly ([info]ercasse_ainince) wrote,
@ 2004-07-13 19:34:00
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Entry tags:flirting, work

Today I flirted with an attorney
Well, I did. And I'm rather proud of myself. After all, aren't I the one who was told I had no flirting talent or know-how whatsoever?

To back up a little and give the scene more context, allow me to explain that the trait most valued by attorneys in a court reporter (right after competence with dictation and verbatim transcribing) is invisibility, the ability to disappear. The court reporter has to be the first one in the room and the last one out of it. She has to set up and sit behind masses of equipment. She has to swear in the witness, put on her mask, and disappear. Though sitting between the deposing attorney and the witness, she must be invisible.

At a previous deposition, one attorney (not the one with whom I flirted today) complimented me on my ability to disappear. He meant it. I wondered how good this job would be for my psyche.

But today's deposing attorney was young and cute. He's quite tall and has a deep voice, probably a baritone. (I recognized his voice as I've typed up some of his depositions.) Kathy, the court reporter I'm observing, had introduced me to everyone right away. I'm not really sure who started it. I noticed him and looked at him a lot. During the first break, he remembered my name and said "Hi." Then He said "Hi" to everyone else as an afterthought. During the deposition, I would catch his eye and smile and look away. I was feeling rather giggly, a rare feeling indeed for me. Once he asked me why I was smiling, and I responded that I like peoplewatching. He asked how long I had lived in Fayetteville, and I had to disappoint him by telling him I live in Raleigh.

Alright, I know that my idea of flirting is probably a lot more subtle than others'. But even Kathy noticed, saying that he seems to like me a lot. It's a good thing, as he's one of our regular clients. And tomorrow, I'm going with Kathy to take another one of his depositions.

Too bad Pace's business cards don't have my phone number on them.



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[info]fmphoenixhawk
2004-07-13 05:32 pm UTC (link)
Ooooo! Booty call! :p



Seriously, though, go for it. At worst, he's a jerk. At best, you've got someone to call at 2:30 AM to help you move a body.

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[info]ercasse_ainince
2004-07-14 05:10 pm UTC (link)
Um, exactly what I was thinking. . .

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[info]fmphoenixhawk
2004-07-15 02:48 pm UTC (link)
Well, I meant move a dead body. Although the other version works too.

I've read your next entry on this matter, and you should go for it. If he hurts your company because you asked him out, that's childishness.

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[info]supernifty
2004-07-14 06:35 am UTC (link)
That's why you write your number on the back. It's much more personal that way and he's a lot more likely to remember it.

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[info]shadmere
2004-07-14 08:20 am UTC (link)
Hehehe.

That is subtle, but subtlety is not a bad thing.

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tickletoes
2004-07-14 05:21 pm UTC (link)
(Found you through Con's journal)

I am (or was) pretty good with the flirt, and I'm here to offer you some advice free of charge.

M'kay, here's what you do.

1. Make sure the company doesn't have policy about fraternization with clients. Very important

2. Check for a wedding ring. Very, very important.

3. Next time you see him, see if the hint-of-the-spark-that-got-Holly-giggly is still there. If it is,

4. Hand him business card with "Holly" and your phone number and e-mail written on the back.

The ball will be in his court, but I have no doubt he'll take you up on it. :) You're gorgeous and intelligent, quite the rare gem...especially in Fayetteville (God bless all my Fayetteville relatives, but man, gems they are not).

Good luck!

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Thanks!
[info]ercasse_ainince
2004-07-14 05:38 pm UTC (link)
I can use all the flirting help I can get.

I believe I possess the two most powerful anti-flirting traits: sincerity and self-consciousness. I almost cannot be flippant, and I absolutely cannot stop analyzing and second guessing myself.

I did follow number two. The same people who told me I was incapable of flirting informed me of that technique. As obvious as it is, I hadn't thought of it. I'm not exactly the secude-the-married-man-or-any-man-for-that-matter type.

When I saw him again today, we kept making eyes and smiling, but I was waiting for him to make the move. I had brought several business cards with the intention of giving him my number if he asked, but he didn't. I realize now that I didn't help much by following him out of the company of the other court reporter. I don't know that I can make the first move. I never have, and, more importantly, I don't know if it would make him uncomfortable as a Pace client. Would he not hire us for fear I'd show up?

Thanks for the advice. Sorry if you didn't want a novel as a reply.

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